10 Ideas for Getting Kids to Write

Writing is an important skill to learn. It boosts motor functions, develops imagination, and endorses memory. Teaching kids to write is a great idea to help them with future studies and prepare them to go back to school. But it is also a fun bonding activity that helps them to be more creative. 
When you teach kids to write, it is not so much about grammar or punctuation. It is more about literacy, engagement, and finding new means of expression. If you want to help your kid on this journey, here are ten fun ideas to try. 

Help Kids Write Letters 

When do kids start writing? Children start to write approximately when they are three or four years old. Do not worry, if your kid is starting slowly, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed as a parent. There is no such thing as a perfect parent. You just need to give them some extra help.

1. Create a writing spot.

The place where writing kid can happily do their thing. Provide all the supplies needed, such as paper, crayons, pencils, pens, etc. You can design it all together and add fun quotes, pictures of favorite animals, or cartoon characters. Having such a designated place offers constant children writing opportunities. 

2. Prepare worksheets.

If you are only starting with the basics, create worksheets with letters and words to trace. This way your child can trace your own writing, you can do this together. Put a piece of paper over the worksheet and ask your child to trace. Help with the correct way to hold a pen, be there to encourage the effort. 

3. Do grocery lists together.

You can teach kid to write and establish the importance of it in practice at the same time. When you prepare to go for groceries, sit down with your kid, and create the list together, ask them to write things down. Encourage to add something they want to buy, maybe it is some food they enjoy. Let them write it down. When you are at the groceries, give the list to your kid and ask to read it out to find the products and circle the ones you’ve already bought. 

Things for Kids to Write About 

With the older ones, you can get even more creative. How to motivate a child to write? Well, by showing how fun it is and what creative power words have. After all, it is an amazing technique of self-expression. When you provide children with the ideas to create a story, you help them to boost their imagination. 

4. Relay story.

This is a fine idea to teach children to write stories and is especially good if you have several kids. Relay story is created together, one starts with one of two sentences and the next one continues with their input. For example, you can start with “One sunny day a white bunny was enjoying green grass on a field” and pass the paper. Now your child needs to continue with the next sentence. 

5. Offer journaling.

Another tip on how to help your child write better is to promote it as a regular activity. You can start journaling, as an example. Write stories about your day or a trip somewhere. Include pictures, photos, tickets, or any other piece of illustration. 

6. Postcards and birthday cards.

If you do not always know what to write about for kids, make a habit of sending handwritten postcards when you travel anywhere. Motivate your kid to create a card to their friends or other family members, provide them with all the supplies, like envelopes and postmarks. Use birthday cards for teaching kid to write – create handwritten birthday cards with best wishes. 

7. Leave notes.

This tip on how to help your child write is also great for making it an everyday habit. Write funny notes for your family on stickers or chalkboard. Motivate them to answer the same way. It can be a game, a part of communication, and training at the same time. 

8. Endorse creative writing.

Anything can be a topic of a story. For example, you can ask to create a story on random words from a book o vocabulary. It can be a tale about the first animal they saw today. Or something about what they truly love – astronauts, dinosaurs, knights, or cookies. Choose the object or a word and ask to write a story about its day.

9. Finish the story.

Another suggestion on how to help kids with writing is by offering them the set and asking to finish the story. If working completely from scratch is a bit tricky for them yet, set a scene and ask them to continue. For example, start it with something like “A little red-hair boy lived in a small town. He loved to look at starts every night before sleep. He always wondered whether he can ever go there, to space. One night, something amazing happened…” and ask to continue.

10. Be enthusiastic and supportive.

You are an example for your child, so if you are not into writing and never do it, it is hard to motivate. Do these exercises together, play writing games, and make it a fun part of your life. Stay positive, support every effort, and show an example. 


5 Observations On Parenting

Someone who’s so used to standing on her own needs a special kind of love to break down those walls. She has been through the toughest of situations and survived. She needs a partner who not only understands that, but who celebrates it.

She needs the kind of love that won’t waste her time.

Her time is precious. Her kids, career, and other commitments leave her with very little free time, so if she’s making time for you, don’t waste it. Make that time with her special. Be all in, or don’t be in at all. She doesn’t have months- or even years- to waste on a partner who isn’t committed.

She needs the kind of love that is patient.

She’s been hurt, and it may take her a while to fully open up and trust again. Patience is key, or she might get scared. While she needs a committed partner, she doesn’t need a pushy partner. Let her set the pace.

She needs the kind of love that is fun!

Her days are filled with responsibilities, so she needs to let loose during her free time. Take her on adventures. Spoil her. Treat her like the true queen she is.

She needs the kind of love that is gentle.

Her world has been filled with the harsh realities of single motherhood. It gets overwhelming. It gets lonely. She needs a love that makes her believe in the good again. A love that treats her with kindness. A love whose intentions are pure.

She needs the kind of love that shows appreciation.

She probably doesn’t get a “thank you” for half the things she does. As a single mom, she’s just expected to take care of everything. She needs to hear those “thank you’s”. She not only needs to hear that she’s appreciated– she needs to feel like she’s appreciated, too.

She needs the kind of love that never leaves her with doubts.

She should never have to question your feelings. She should never cry herself to sleep at night wondering if you care. Reassure her- as many times as she needs it. Tell her how you feel about her- often. She will never tire of hearing those sweet words.

She needs the kind of love that inspires her.

She needs someone who’s going to come in and shake things up. Someone who’s going to break up that routine and give her something exciting to look forward to. Her partner needs to inspire her and push her to be the best version of herself.

She needs the kind of love that makes it all worth it.

Every tear. Every sleepless night. Every time she’s felt like it’s her against the world. She needs a love that makes all of those hard moments worth it. She’s gotten through all of that, and now she has you by her side. Be her rainbow at the end of the storm. She’s worth it.

15 Reasons Why It’s Awesome Being a Young Mom

Even though I am the youngest mom at my son’s school, I still feel like becoming a twenty-something-year-old mom is the best decision I ever made. I use to be fearful being a mom in my 20’s because that meant that it would end to me doing what I wanted to do when I wanted to do it. But being a young mom has so many perks to it in the long run.


So here are 15 perks of being a mother in your 20’s.


1. You are the hottest mom because you are younger than the rest of the moms.

2. When your child is 18 and ready to move out of your house you will still be in your 40’s and can have time to enjoy life.

3. You still have the energy to keep up with your kid.

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How To Get Your Kids To Socialize Through Activities

Play Time

Maybe try staying in as a family and play a board game. By carving out game time you can allow for some light family fun. You can try alternating days to play a different game. So if you play scrabble on Tuesday, then on Thursday or Friday you could play a fun card game.

Simple games like name, place, animal and things could be made more exciting.


Carroms, Ludo, Monopoly, Chutes and ladders, Pictionary  and all of the classic games should come out. You can think of some unique games too.  One evening, a simple deck card game could be played. 


Create A Quiz Game

Think of some interesting questions that everyone is able to answer. Maybe some fun debate questions or simple story telling. Even an anecdote or one of your kids favorite childhood memory. By starting family conversations, you open up the family to bond and enjoy each other. Because there will be so much to discuss and talk about.


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Gardening With Children - PART ONE

Gardening with children is not just fun, but can be extremely useful educationally.

Gardening helps children to understand about life cycles, seasons, and the importance of nature. Growing your own vegetables is a very good way to help children understand where food comes from.

But what can you do in the garden with children, and how involved can they be? This page describes some activities that will be useful with children aged anything from about two to ten, and perhaps beyond.

Clothes For Gardening

Whatever age your children, gardening should result in dirty, mud-stained clothes. It is important that they can get really involved, with dirty hands and clothes, without having to worry about the dirt.

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Tips for Crafting With Children PART THREE


Modelling in Clay or Play-Dough

Parents worried about mess should embrace play-dough whole-heartedly because it washes out of clothes easily and can be cleaned off carpet with a vacuum cleaner, even if it has been trodden in.

Clay is a more advanced option that should only be introduced once you are confident that your children will notice when it is on the floor and can be trusted to keep it reasonably tidy.

You will need:

  • Play-dough, either bought or home-made;
  • A plastic tablecloth or plastic-topped table;
  • Lots of cutters, rolling pins, shapers and pushers (buy these at charity shops or ask for them for birthdays as having plenty makes a big difference to the enjoyment levels).


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Tips for Crafting With Children PART TWO


Specific Craft Activities

Painting and Drawing

Painting and drawing includes any kind of mark-making: it might be on paper, or board, or on paving outside in chalk.

Mark-making is very good preparation for school so it is a good thing to encourage from an early age, but it can be very messy.

You need to provide:

  • Drawing surface (for example, large sheets of paper, blackboard or floor space outside); and
  • Mark-making material (for example, paint and brushes, or chalks).


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Tips for Crafting With Children PART ONE

Tips for Crafting With Children

Prior Preparation and Planning

Just like cooking with children, preparation is key to enjoyable craft sessions with children. Make sure that you have thought about it in advance and have an activity ready to go, otherwise the child will lose interest while you get things ready.

Think like a pre-school provider: everything needs to be out and ready when the children arrive to play.

One Thing at a Time

Don’t be tempted to offer several options and expect your child to make up their mind. Get one activity organized, whether that is play-dough, painting, or making something, and then help your child to complete it.

If you are offering your attention, and something fun to do, you are unlikely to get complaints that an alternative activity is not available.


A bit of thought about what you can expect your child to do will pay off, especially if you have more than one.

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Remember, be tolerant, especially of mess.

There will be mess, and plenty of it, when cooking with children but you can clear it up later and they might even help you with the washing-up, water play being many children’s favourite activity.

Also remember that you will need at least twice as long to make anything with children involved.

The idea is not to create a masterpiece, but to get your children involved in food preparation, and to have some fun together.

You can also use the experience to teach children the basics of food hygiene, safety and nutrition and diet.

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How Many Children?


The easiest number of children to manage is, of course, one, especially when they are very small.

If you have two under the age of about five, cooking with each separately is probably recommended as you may otherwise end up being quite stressed.

A four-year old can do significantly more than a two-year old, but that won’t stop the two-year old trying to get fully involved, or mean that you don’t need to help the four-year old at all. The need to watch both, and do several things at once, may reduce your enjoyment of the session significantly!

Interestingly, it is entirely possible to cook with a group of four children of the same age, especially once they reach the age of four or five. This is because they are more capable of doing things for themselves and also understand about taking turns. Four competitive small boys taking turns can cream butter and sugar together at amazing speeds and with huge efficiency.

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What to Cook

Baking is usually the first choice activity when cooking with children.

This is because you mix everything together cold and then cook it, which means that only the adult has to touch anything hot.

Baking also results in things that children want to eat, like cakes and biscuits (cookies). There are plenty of simple and easy cake and biscuit recipes in books and on the internet so even a novice baker can feel reasonably confident.

Top Tip!

Biscuits are probably the easiest thing to make. Some require small balls of mixture squashed gently, and others need rolling and cutting. Children tend to love this part of the activity so it may be worth investing in some fun-shaped cookie cutters, such as butterflies or dinosaurs.

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Entertaining Children

Keeping children busy is half the battle in keeping them quiet and happy, and there is a huge amount of advice available on ways to manage this, including our page - Top Tips for the School Holidays.

For more inspiration try our pages on Cooking with ChildrenGardening with Children, and Craft Activities with Children for some ideas for things to do at home.

If you’re thinking of going out and about, check out our pages on Outings with Children.

Of course, there is the issue of the ‘electronic babysitter’, and whether it is good for children to spend time watching television or using computers. This is a perennial issue for all parents, whether your child is barely 18 months or approaching 18 years old. Read more in our page on Screen Time for Children.

Children’s parties are an ongoing challenge for parents. Learn more about how to cope in our pages on Planning Children’s Parties and Managing Children’s Parties.

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No Budget, No Problem PART FOUR


I Can Just Spend 5 Minutes Tracking My Accounts

Even if you will never use a spreadsheet or a formal budgeting system, you can still commit to checking in on your accounts. Think of it as feeding your fish. You don’t need an elaborate fish food dispenser with bells and whistles, you just need to lift the lid,  peek in and make sure all is well.

I check our bank transactions for 5 minutes on Mondays and Fridays. And our investments on the last day of the month. This simple habit revealed three significant errors in the past few years:

  • Our bank withdrew double mortgage payments one month
  • Our car dealership set up automatic monthly car payments out of our account for someone else’s vehicle (we’re nice, but not that nice!)
  • A major investment firm gave $9,000 of our life savings to someone else because of a clerical error (read the ridiculous story here)

It is easy to assume that banks, car dealerships and investment firms won’t make mistakes, but that is not the case. Simple, regular habits will help you be more aware of your financial picture, and catch any double charges or errors. Well worth the 5-minute investment.

I Can Just Automate a Few Things

Setting up a few automations will simplify your finances and help you achieve goals faster than you think. Call your bank to get advice on which systems will serve you well.

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No Budget, No Problem: How to Get a Grip on Your Finances When Spreadsheets Aren’t Your Thing PART THREE


I Can Do a Spending Freeze for A Day or a Week

Try this once and watch what happens. Limit your spending to only food and transportation for a set amount of time. Notice how many times you go to mindlessly spend money before remembering it’s a Spending Freeze. Your bank balance will reward your self-control, and you will become more aware of how much shopping can be done out of habit. 

I Can Have a Low-Budget Weekend

Since entertainment spending often skyrockets on the weekend, challenge yourself to plan a fun activity using very little money. Encourage the whole family to join in on the challenge. Better yet, invite another family to work with you. What kind of adventures could both families have together while only spending $10? $20? Our library has free passes to conservation parks that can be signed out for a week. Be creative and meet up for a free afternoon with each family contributing to a picnic. A little planning goes a long way in saving.

I Can Just Make a Bit More

This tip can revolutionize your financial management. If you have a large purchase to make, find creative ways to earn extra income so your regular account won’t take a hit. The more urgent the goal, the more creative you will become.

When we bought our first home, we desperately needed air conditioning. The thought of Little Squishy waking up from naps with soggy hair made this a priority. But we didn’t have $2,000 on hand. I brainstormed a list of things I could do as a SAHM to quickly save up. I started in-home tutoring around my sleeping boy’s schedule. After a few months of stuffing all earnings into a sock drawer, we were able to pay for the A/C in full.

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No Budget, No Problem: How to Get a Grip on Your Finances When Spreadsheets Aren’t Your Thing PART TWO


No Budget, No Problem: How to Get a Grip on Your Finances When Spreadsheets Aren’t Your Thing

I Can Just Spend a Bit Less

Do you wander around the mall on your lunch break or mindlessly scroll online stores? Searching out the next great buy can be addictive because our brains receive a shot of endorphins when we see something exciting. The problem is, this easily leads to overspending. 

And we might be inadvertently modeling this pattern for our children. Our 7-year-old and I recently had this conversation:

Him: Mom, I found something I really want to buy on Amazon.

Me: Did you know you wanted to buy it before you went on Amazon?

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No Budget, No Problem: How to Get a Grip on Your Finances When Spreadsheets Aren’t Your Thing PART ONE

Do your finances feel out of control? These practical tips will help you implement strategies to get you closer to saving money without a spreadsheet.

My friend Sara struggles with managing her money.

She’s a busy working mom of 3 littles and at the end of a busy day, the last thing she wants to do is enter numbers into a complicated budget. At the same time, she dreads opening her credit card statements and often feels guilty about overspending. She earns a decent income but has no idea how the money disappears so quickly. After hitting a low point, Sara asked me to help her make some changes. Her only request was that my ideas be simple and attainable. 

This is for all the Saras.

If you are struggling with your finances like Sara, I promise it’s possible to manage your money better. So before you throw in the towel (that you bought on impulse), try the “I Can Just” technique. Instead of focusing on making huge financial changes, just do one thing differently every day. Small steps. Big results.

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More concerned with getting good food on the table fast than with serving a gourmet 4-course meal? We’ve got you covered, with simple, easy-to-follow, family WHC---16CA-approved recipes that use everyday staples and come together quickly with minimum steps.

Looking for a hearty, creamy soup recipe? This loaded cream of potato soup is the perfect comfort food recipe for any week night. Cozy up & enjoy!

When the weather is cold nothing quite hits the spot like a hearty bowl of hot soup!

Loaded Cream of Potato Soup

This creamy potato version comes together surprisingly fast, but the yummy toppings make it feel extra special. It is also a great dish to serve to a crowd!

Loaded Cream Of Potato Soup

 The best Creamy Potato Soup recipe with all your favorite toppings. Perfect for any week night meal!

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How to Remove Almost Any Stain (Yes, Really!) PART FOUR



Place stain face down on a clean paper towel. Pre-treat underside of stain with liquid laundry detergent or stain remover, rubbing stain gently. Rinse. Soak for 30 minutes in a solution of lukewarm water mixed with all-fabric bleach. Rinse. If an item is white or colorfast, soak in bleach solution for 15 minutes. Rinse and launder normally.

Nail Polish

Place stain face-down on a clean paper towel. Gently rub from the underside with cloth or sponge soaked in nail polish remover. Repeat with clean paper towels until the stain is gone. Launder normally.

Oil or Grease

Place stain face-down on a clean paper towel. Pre-treat underside of stain with a generous amount of liquid laundry detergent or stain remover, rubbing stain gently. Rinse with hot water. Launder normally in the hottest water possible.

Permanent Marker

Place stain face down on a clean paper towel. Pre-treat underside of the stain with liquid laundry detergent or stain remover, rubbing stain gently. Rinse. Soak for 30 minutes in a solution of lukewarm water mixed with all-fabric powdered bleach. Rinse. If the item is white or colorfast, soak in bleach solution for 15 minutes. Rinse and launder normally.

How to Remove Almost Any Stain (Yes, Really!) PART THREE

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Candle Wax

Scrape off any excess wax with a table knife. Place the stain face down on a clean paper towel. Press an iron over the backside of the stain to release the wax onto a paper towel. Repeat with clean paper towels until no more wax transfers to the paper towel. Treat the remaining color stain with stain remover. Soak in Oxy-Clean solution for 30 minutes. Launder normally, using bleach for whites.


For whites or colorfast fabrics, fill sink or bucket with lukewarm water and 1-2 cups bleach. Soak items for 30 minutes; launder normally with bleach. For non-colorfast fabrics, fill sink or bucket with warm water, 2 squirts dish soap, and 2 tablespoons of ammonia. Soak for 30 minutes. Drain water & rinse items. Refill sink and add ¼ cup vinegar. Soak items for 30 minutes. Rinse and launder normally with the hottest water possible and add Oxy-Clean to detergent.


Place the item face down on a clean towel. Gently rub from the back with a sponge soaked in rubbing alcohol. Soak item for 15 minutes in a mixture of 1-quart lukewarm water, 1 tablespoon vinegar, and a squirt of liquid dish soap. Rinse the item. Soak in Oxy-Clean solution for 30 minutes. Launder normally, using bleach for whites.

Grass Stains

Soak the item in cool water & Oxy-Clean solution for several hours or overnight. Launder normally, using bleach for whites. If stain remains, soak in Oxy-Clean solution again, then re-wash.

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