In the following situation, the green type represents appropriate boundaries, the orange questionable boundaries, and red is where those boundaries are being unhealthily crossed.
Elise has been seeing Brad for two months. She likes her relationship and is happy when she is with him. Elise doesn't want to have sex until she is married, but Brad has been pressuring her to go further and further each time they make out. Just last week, Brad started making comments about not having sex. He gets angry, frustrated, and sometimes mean, and Elise, trying to make him happy, finally gives in.